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Mark Wahlberg is continuing to use social media to send his congratulations to his brother Donnie Wahlberg on his wedding day.

The 43-year-old actor will not be making it to Donnie‘s wedding to Jenny McCarthy because he is in Los Angeles for his daughter Ella‘s 11th birthday party. Her actual birthday is on September 2, but they are celebrating early as he is leaving town for work before then.

“Congratulations guys! Congratulations from all of us. We wish we could be there. It’s Ella‘s birthday today. She’s 11… We love you Donnie. Very happy for you. Sorry we can’t be there, but see you soon,” Mark says in the video.

Also featured in the video are his wife Rhea Durham and their four kids – Ella, 10, Michael, 8, Brendan, 5, and Margaret, 4.

“Thank you @mark_wahlberg. Thanks to you & @rheadur for the adorable video for me & Jenny! Please wish a Happy B-Day to my god daughter Ella!” Donnie tweeted earlier that day.

Watch the video now on Mark‘s Facebook page!

Mark Wahlberg holds his son on his shoulders in the June/July 2014 issue of Esquire magazine, on newsstands May 27.

Here’s what the 42-year-old Transformers 4 star had to share:

On parenting: “I think the most important thing is to always be involved in every aspect of their life. To give them enough trust that they can share things with you. I don’t want them to be terrified of me, you know? But I don’t want them to think they can do whatever they want and get away with it, either, because they can’t. The biggest thing for me is, you know, as quickly as I was able to turn it around, to get from there to here, from me having nothing as a kid to me here now, providing everything for my kids, it’s like, I worry that maybe they won’t appreciate things. I worry that maybe they’ll have a sense of entitlement. You don’t wanna give your kids everything without giving them the tools to be great people.”

On education and getting his high school diploma: “I can’t tell my kids to go to school and get an education if I don’t have a diploma. They’d start thinking, why do we need to go? You didn’t go and you turned out all right. But I’m proud to have it. If I want to go on and further my education and study film or whatever, I can do that.”

On his childhood: “I think, for the most part, I had a pretty good childhood. It wasn’t until we got older that we realized we didn’t have what a lot of other people had.”

Joining him for the shoot were his kiddos Brendan, Ella Rae, Michael, and Margaret.

For more from Mark, visit Esquire.com.